Talk:Essay:The Invisible Hand of Marriage
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Insightful
Finally, something with which I cannot argue... at least not yet.
I was talking with someone about a few of the points made in this essay. Didn't think it related to marriage, just dedication to want to succeed. Oh well. ^.^ NateGoogle's spiders need some work 11:45, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
Gay couples
Hold on. so now gay couples do not help each other? They do not futher each other's goals in life, nag each other, complement each other? of this list of 7 all but two are irrespective of gender. and the two that are based on gender could just as easily be based on TWO DIFFERENT HUMAN outlooks. I know my sister and I complement each other because we are so extremely different - she is into science and math, a liberal, married for 7 years, job as an engineer for a downtown Denver building. I am a nurse with the army, and still waiting for "mr. right". You can't make broad and *unproven* statements about how two people of any gender complement each other.--IcedTea 12:41, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- I don't know which two you're referring to, and your personal story seems contrived. All the key elements identified apply only to male-female marriages. The invisible hand of marriage does not exist for same-sex marriages.
- Besides, people don't get married to their sisters. I know I wouldn't! -MelanieKoontz 13:36, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Love how trusting you are. You've never heard of two sisters being total opposites? Anyhow, only two of the "hands" directly say that the balance of man and woman is what drives this "hand". My question to you is why two men couldn't be just as productive as a man and a woman, just as focused on bettering their family, just as focused on finding economic goals that set the family in a better position and thereby drive each individual more. Each person in a couple, regardless of gender, helps the other out, encourages them, balances them, gently points out flaws and aids in fixing those flaws, etc. Why is this exclusive to a man and a woman in marriage?--IcedTea 13:55, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Men and women complement each other because they are designed that way by God. Two men or two women could only be a poor imitation of God's design. It would never be as good as the real thing. TJason 18:06, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Indeed. One simply has to look at the history of homosexual relationships to see that. The pro-homosexual crowd likes to hold up the rare homosexual couple that has lasted decades, but they consistently fail to acknowledge that the average homosexual relationship lasts around 18 months. Additionally, very few "committed" homosexual relationships are monogamous. Jinxmchue 18:23, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- "The history of homosexual relationships"? Pray tell, where has this history been recoded for the ages? Is it the source of your uncited claims? Wandering 22:58, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Indeed. One simply has to look at the history of homosexual relationships to see that. The pro-homosexual crowd likes to hold up the rare homosexual couple that has lasted decades, but they consistently fail to acknowledge that the average homosexual relationship lasts around 18 months. Additionally, very few "committed" homosexual relationships are monogamous. Jinxmchue 18:23, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Men and women complement each other because they are designed that way by God. Two men or two women could only be a poor imitation of God's design. It would never be as good as the real thing. TJason 18:06, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Love how trusting you are. You've never heard of two sisters being total opposites? Anyhow, only two of the "hands" directly say that the balance of man and woman is what drives this "hand". My question to you is why two men couldn't be just as productive as a man and a woman, just as focused on bettering their family, just as focused on finding economic goals that set the family in a better position and thereby drive each individual more. Each person in a couple, regardless of gender, helps the other out, encourages them, balances them, gently points out flaws and aids in fixing those flaws, etc. Why is this exclusive to a man and a woman in marriage?--IcedTea 13:55, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Besides, people don't get married to their sisters. I know I wouldn't! -MelanieKoontz 13:36, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- There's plenty of research that goes back many decades. The leading psychiatric association used to study it and labeled it as something to be treated and changed, until leftist political pressure took over.--Aschlafly 23:32, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Wandering, conservapedia has an excellent article on homosexuality that talks about this. It might be a good place to start if you are actually interesting in an answer to your question. TJason 10:35, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
Originality
- I'm just going to note that it's possible this is not a Conservapedian discovery; others may just have a different name for it. -CSGuy 19:05, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- Suggestions welcome. I can't think of any. While we're at it, do you think Adam Smith's invisible hand wasn't original either?--Aschlafly 20:03, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- I don't even know what that is; I know next to nothing about economics (although I plan to fulfill part of my social sciences requirement with a class in it). I wasn't saying that the idea is definitely not original, just that a lack of search results for your term doesn't prove that it is. -CSGuy 23:03, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
- It's interesting you don't know what the "invisible hand" is, and I appreciate your candor. I bet the familiarity with that term and concept is far higher among conservatives than liberals. Indeed, it has been said that a good economics course is more likely to convert liberals to conservatives than any other teaching. That said, it's almost impossible to present or discuss a concept for an invisible hand of marriage without using the term "invisible hand." The lack of Google cites to it was meant to be illustrative rather than a proof of originality.--Aschlafly 23:30, 6 August 2008 (EDT)
Google search on "invisible hand of marriage"
I tried this, and it actually looks as if it is true that it is an original Conservapedia term. I do get one hit now, and oddly it's not for Conservapedia, but for a website that seems to be blocked by the Conservapedia spam filter. That website appears to be offline at the moment, but judging from the summary on google, it looks as if it is mocking Conservapedia (explaining the censorship of the term here). Are there moves afoot to get other blogs and websites to publish comments and articles or to get Conservapedia itself on the search engine results? Davidklein 09:51, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- I assume the Google search engine will pick up our entry in a few days. We're not planning any special effort for it. It will be interesting to see how long that process takes.--Aschlafly 09:54, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- That site seems to link directly to this article anyway, so it doesn't matter very much. Etc 12:34, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- It might be an interesting project to track the propagation of a concept like this, to see how and how fast it spreads. --Benp 10:20, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- I would not open a website blocked by a spam filter. Those often are full of viruses and spyware. At least use an up-to-date antivirus program! Has someone tried opening that website? SilvioB 16:13, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- It might be an interesting project to track the propagation of a concept like this, to see how and how fast it spreads. --Benp 10:20, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- No, stay away from that site. I'm sure it's blocked for good reasons. Virus programs only help so far, you still have to be careful. Etc 16:40, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
Respect for authorship
Whether one agrees with this or not, I have to object to people applying direct edits to this piece because it's an essay, not an encyclopedia article. This is the original work of Andrew Schlafly, and is his alone to edit. (For the record, I do not agree with the benefits of a relationship being conditional on the genders involved) --DinsdaleP 14:19, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- No, Dinsdale, that's not correct. I welcome edits. The very essence of a wiki is group editing, and that applies to essays also.--Aschlafly 14:26, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
- My apologies, then, and thanks for clarifying. -DinsdaleP 14:31, 7 August 2008 (EDT)
