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| − | [[File:Gilbert-Stuart 1795 Washington-portrait.jpg|thumbnail|right|250px|"Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for it is better to be alone than in bad company." - [[George Washington]] ]] | + | [[File:Gilbert-Stuart 1795 Washington-portrait.jpg|thumbnail|right|250px|"Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own [[reputation]]; for it is better to be alone than in bad company." - [[George Washington]] ]] |
| | According to Amy Morin, LCSW, "Individuals with '''social intelligence''' can sense how other people feel, know intuitively what to say in social situations, and seem self-assured, even in a larger crowd."<ref>[https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-social-intelligence-4163839 How to Increase Your Social Intelligence] by Amy Morin, LCSW</ref> See also: [[Interpersonal skills]] | | According to Amy Morin, LCSW, "Individuals with '''social intelligence''' can sense how other people feel, know intuitively what to say in social situations, and seem self-assured, even in a larger crowd."<ref>[https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-social-intelligence-4163839 How to Increase Your Social Intelligence] by Amy Morin, LCSW</ref> See also: [[Interpersonal skills]] |
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| | '''4.''' Lack of Arguing. See also: [[Agreeableness]] and [[Conflict resolution]] | | '''4.''' Lack of Arguing. See also: [[Agreeableness]] and [[Conflict resolution]] |
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| | + | == Self-monitoring == |
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| | + | ''See also:'' [[Self-monitoring]] |
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| | + | [[Self-monitoring]] is "a [[personality]] trait that involves the ability to monitor and regulate self-presentations, [[emotion]]s, and behaviors in response to social environments and situations."<ref>[https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-self-monitoring-5179838 How Self-Monitoring Can Help You Adapt Your Behavior] by Kendra Cherry, MSEd</ref> |
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| | + | "High self-monitoring is a personality trait where individuals are highly attuned to social situations and adjust their behavior accordingly to fit in and make a good impression. They are sensitive to social cues and adapt their presentation and behavior to match the expectations of others, often acting like "social chameleons"."<ref>[https://www.google.com/search?q=high+self+monitor&oq=high+self+mo&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgAEAAYgAQyBwgAEAAYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBggCEEUYOTIHCAMQABiABDIHCAQQABiABDIHCAUQABiABDIHCAYQABiABDINCAcQABiGAxiABBiKBTINCAgQABiGAxiABBiKBTIGCAkQLhhA0gEINDA3N2owajGoAgCwAgA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 High self-monitoring]</ref> |
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| | == Improving social intelligence == | | == Improving social intelligence == |
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| | '''4.''' Practice [[Listening skills|active listening]] | | '''4.''' Practice [[Listening skills|active listening]] |
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| | + | *[https://chatgpt.com/share/68a3d221-90c8-800a-b972-23b72445b853 How to have a high degree of social intelligence], AI |
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| | == Relationship building skills == | | == Relationship building skills == |
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| | == Overcoming a fear of social rejection == | | == Overcoming a fear of social rejection == |
| − | [[File:No.png|right|300px|thumbnail|[[Social rejection]] occurs when an individual is intentionally excluded from social relationships/interactions and can involve ignoring another person's presence to actively expelling an individual.<ref>[https://www2.psych.ubc.ca/~schaller/308Readings/DeWall2011.pdf Social Acceptance and Rejection: The Sweet and the Bitter], Association of Psychological Science</ref> ]]
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| | ''See also:'' [[Fear]] | | ''See also:'' [[Fear]] |
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| | See also: [[Atheist factions]] and [[Atheism and intolerance]] | | See also: [[Atheist factions]] and [[Atheism and intolerance]] |
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| | + | == Books == |
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| | + | *''[[How to Win Friends and Influence People]]: Updated For the Next Generation of Leaders'' by [[Dale Carnegie]], Simon & Schuster; Updated edition (May 17, 2022) |
| | + | *''[[How to Know a Person]]: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen'' by David Brooks. Random House (October 24, 2023) |
| | + | *''Superconnector: Stop Networking and Start Building Business Relationships that Matter'' by Scott Gerber and Ryan Paugh. Da Capo Lifelong Books (February 27, 2018) |
| | + | *''Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People'' by Vanessa Van Edwards. Portfolio (April 25, 2017) |
| | + | *''Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication'' by Vanessa Van Edwards. Portfolio (March 1, 2022) |
| | + | *''How Reading People: Mastering body language - the FBI's secret art'' by Vanessa Van Edwards. Independently published (June 27, 2023) |
| | + | *''Human Lie Detection and Body Language 101: Your Guide to Reading People's Nonverbal Behavior'' by Vanessa Van Edwards. Create Space, 2013. |
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| | == See also == | | == See also == |
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| | *[[Social rejection]] | | *[[Social rejection]] |
| | *[[Reputation]] | | *[[Reputation]] |
| | + | *[[Quotes related to ignoring unreasonable critics]] |
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| | == External links == | | == External links == |