*Is indeed true "by definition" of holy matrimony;
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*is true of civil marriage by longstanding custom and popular expectation;
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*but is not true of civil marraige "by definition."
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The whole gay marriage issue arises precisely because it is ''not'' true by definition. If it were, there would be no need for a political struggle to write new laws to ''make'' it true "by definition." [[User:Dpbsmith|Dpbsmith]] 10:48, 22 April 2007 (EDT)