In defining sobriety, SA only speaks for its members; for the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse. In SA’s sobriety definition, the term “spouse” refers to one’s partner in a marriage between a man and a woman. For the unmarried sexaholic, sexual sobriety means freedom from sex of any kind. And for all of us, single and married alike, sexual sobriety also includes progressive victory over lust (Sexaholics Anonymous, 191-192).<ref>{{cite web |title=What is Sexaholics Anonymous? |publisher=Sexaholics Anonymous Inc. |url=https://www.sa.org/ |accessdate=9 Apr 2017}}</ref> | In defining sobriety, SA only speaks for its members; for the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse. In SA’s sobriety definition, the term “spouse” refers to one’s partner in a marriage between a man and a woman. For the unmarried sexaholic, sexual sobriety means freedom from sex of any kind. And for all of us, single and married alike, sexual sobriety also includes progressive victory over lust (Sexaholics Anonymous, 191-192).<ref>{{cite web |title=What is Sexaholics Anonymous? |publisher=Sexaholics Anonymous Inc. |url=https://www.sa.org/ |accessdate=9 Apr 2017}}</ref> |