==Principle #4: Refusing to Make Unspoken, Unwanted, Unmeant, Lying Vows==
==Principle #4: Refusing to Make Unspoken, Unwanted, Unmeant, Lying Vows==
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Holzmann summarizes his fourth principle this way, "Integrity Daters know that physical actions communicate; therefore, they do all in their power to make their physical actions agree with what they say by word of mouth. Integrity Daters also know that if they do not clearly define what they mean when they make a commitment, they are likely to find themselves obligated for things they don't intend. Therefore, they refuse to make commitments without explicitly stating what they have in mind and without agreeing to an exit plan."<ref name="Holzmann"/>
==Principle #5: Differentiating Between Romantic Interest, Commitments, and Obligations==
==Principle #5: Differentiating Between Romantic Interest, Commitments, and Obligations==