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[[Image:Schnieders.jpg‎|thumb|225px|Yvette Cantu Schneider and family]]
 
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'''Yvette Cantu Schneider''' is a former lesbian who underwent a transformative change and consequently has been out of the lesbian lifestyle since 1992. She married Paul Schneider in December 1999 and become a mom of two daughters, Jessica and Erica. Together with her husband, they minister in the [[St. Louis]], Missouri area to those desiring to overcome homosexuality.<ref name="AFT">{{cite web |title=Ex-Lesbian Yvette Schneider Testifies to ‘Complete’ and Permanent Change |author=Annetta Small et al. |publisher=Americans for Truth |url=http://americansfortruth.com/2007/06/22/ex-lesbian-yvette-schneider-testifies-to-complete-and-permanent-change/ |quote=Schneider, now a mom in St. Louis, was once a featured speaker on Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out” tour highlighting the possiblity of change for homosexuals. |accessdate=30 Jun 2016}}</ref>
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'''Yvette Cantu Schneider''' is a former ex-gay minister and recent LGBT activist. She married Paul Schneider in December 1999 and become a mom of two daughters, Jessica and Erica. Together with her husband, they used to minister in the [[St. Louis]], Missouri area to those desiring to overcome homosexuality.<ref name="AFT">{{cite web |title=Ex-Lesbian Yvette Schneider Testifies to ‘Complete’ and Permanent Change |author=Annetta Small et al. |publisher=Americans for Truth |url=http://americansfortruth.com/2007/06/22/ex-lesbian-yvette-schneider-testifies-to-complete-and-permanent-change/ |quote=Schneider, now a mom in St. Louis, was once a featured speaker on Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out” tour highlighting the possiblity of change for homosexuals. |accessdate=30 Jun 2016}}</ref> However, she has since left the ministry and decried ex-gay teachings.<ref name="TWO">{{cite web |title=Former Ex-Lesbian Leader Yvette Cantu Schneider Slams 'Ex-Gay' 'Freedom' March |publisher="Truth Wins Out" |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YudXsfjMhwg&ab_channel=TruthWinsOut |quote=My name's Yvette Cantu Schneider and I'm an Ex Ex-Gay Leader. I've never seen anyone change from gay to straight, ever. Ever. [...] I would just implore anyone who's thinking of joining an Ex-Gay group not to do it. People don't change and it just oppresses them, so they end up in actually a worse situation than they were in to begin with. And instead of being free to be who you are, you're being forced to be someone that you're not |accessdate=8 Sep 2020}}</ref>
    
== [[Anti-Christian sentiment]] in college ==
 
== [[Anti-Christian sentiment]] in college ==
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== Encountering Christians ==
 
== Encountering Christians ==
 
At the law firm where she worked, Yvette met an outspoken [[Christian]] who impressed her with his knowledge of [[Scripture]]. He could back up everything he believed about how to live daily life with the [[Bible]]. Yvette realized that after studying Eastern and Native American [[mysticism]], she still could not give one practical answer to life’s great questions, nor had she found fulfillment. On one occasion when she visited a Christian church, she was challenged with the [[Gospel]] message calling for [[repentance]]. Even though initially reluctant to accept it, still she surrendered to [[God]], confessed she have done terrible things with her life and in the end a tremendous relief swept through her.   
 
At the law firm where she worked, Yvette met an outspoken [[Christian]] who impressed her with his knowledge of [[Scripture]]. He could back up everything he believed about how to live daily life with the [[Bible]]. Yvette realized that after studying Eastern and Native American [[mysticism]], she still could not give one practical answer to life’s great questions, nor had she found fulfillment. On one occasion when she visited a Christian church, she was challenged with the [[Gospel]] message calling for [[repentance]]. Even though initially reluctant to accept it, still she surrendered to [[God]], confessed she have done terrible things with her life and in the end a tremendous relief swept through her.   
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== Leaving the church ==
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Yvette has since left the church and rejecting its teachings, referring to herself as an "Ex Ex-Gay Leader" and stating that "[She's] never seen anyone change from gay to straight, ever".<ref name="TWO">{{cite web |title=Former Ex-Lesbian Leader Yvette Cantu Schneider Slams 'Ex-Gay' 'Freedom' March |publisher="Truth Wins Out" |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YudXsfjMhwg&ab_channel=TruthWinsOut |quote=My name's Yvette Cantu Schneider and I'm an Ex Ex-Gay Leader. I've never seen anyone change from gay to straight, ever. Ever. [...]  would just implore anyone who's thinking of joining an Ex-Gay group not to do it. People don't change and it just oppresses them, so they end up in actually a worse situation than they were in to begin with. And instead of being free to be who you are, you're being forced to be someone that you're not|accessdate=8 Sep 2020}}</ref> She has also since described her sexuality as being based on personal qualities as opposed to gender, stating that "If the person happens to be a woman or a man is inconsequential to me. [...] when I met the man I would eventually marry, we had an instant connection. [...] Could I have had an equally strong bond with a woman? Of course."<ref name="GLAAD">{{cite web |title=Former anti-gay activist: "I've never met an 'ex-gay' man I thought was not still attracted to men" |author=Jeremy Hooper |publisher="GLAAD" |url=https://www.glaad.org/blog/former-anti-gay-activist-ive-never-met-ex-gay-man-i-thought-was-not-still-attracted-men |quote=If the person happens to be a woman or a man is inconsequential to me. For most of my life I’ve been more attracted to women than to men, but my attractions also depend on personal qualities, not gender. Fifteen years ago when I met the man I would eventually marry, we had an instant connection. Anyone who knows us can see we’re soul mates. Could I have had an equally strong bond with a woman? Of course. |accessdate=8 Sep 2020}}</ref>
    
== See also ==
 
== See also ==

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