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'''12.''' Losers are not [[proactive]]. Losers see all problems in their life as being caused by other people or circumstances beyond their control. They never take personal accountability. They have a victim mentality. They are resistant to change in their life and never take the initiative to make constructive changes that will better their futures. See: [[Change management]]

'''12.''' Losers are not [[proactive]]. Losers see all problems in their life as being caused by other people or circumstances beyond their control. They never take personal accountability. They have a victim mentality. They are resistant to change in their life and never take the initiative to make constructive changes that will better their futures. See: [[Change management]]

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, thin-skinned, unforgiving axe grinders, sulkers and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, thin-skinned, unforgiving axe grinders, sulkers, [[Essay: Why some sore losers endlessly obsesses about their losses and those they lose to|sore losers]] and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''14.''' Losers are bad at relationships. Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> Losers are not concerned with helping others. See: [[Friendship]] and [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]

'''14.''' Losers are bad at relationships. Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> Losers are not concerned with helping others. See: [[Friendship]] and [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]