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| | #Do you frequently have problems with anxiety? Can you reduce the occurrences or intensity? | | #Do you frequently have problems with anxiety? Can you reduce the occurrences or intensity? |
| − | #Does your mind apply logic to reject the illogical, even when the illogical is pressed upon you by the media, Hollywood or peer pressure? | + | #Do ignorant or illogical remarks by others bother you, even when the illogical is pressed upon you by the media, Hollywood or peer pressure? |
| | #Are you vulnerable to teasing, or can you "mock the mockery"? | | #Are you vulnerable to teasing, or can you "mock the mockery"? |
| | #Can you view yourself objectively, admit when you are wrong, and change towards what is advantageous? | | #Can you view yourself objectively, admit when you are wrong, and change towards what is advantageous? |
| | #Can you speak in front of a large hostile audience? | | #Can you speak in front of a large hostile audience? |
| − | #Do you have unexplained difficulties in social situations? | + | #Do you have unexplained difficulties handling social situations? |
| − | #Do you dwell on things that are unchangeable and thus unproductive, such as the past? | + | #Do you dwell more on your past than on your future, or dwell on other things that are unchangeable? |
| | #If someone insults you, for how long (in minutes or hours) will that bother you? | | #If someone insults you, for how long (in minutes or hours) will that bother you? |
| | #Is your mind strong enough to deny desires of your body, such as addictions or unhealthy food consumption? | | #Is your mind strong enough to deny desires of your body, such as addictions or unhealthy food consumption? |
| | #Is your mind able to overcome irrational fears, such as fears of rejection, public speaking, public humiliation, failure, flying, dog attacks, guns, heights, close quarters, big crowds, seeing doctors, and others? | | #Is your mind able to overcome irrational fears, such as fears of rejection, public speaking, public humiliation, failure, flying, dog attacks, guns, heights, close quarters, big crowds, seeing doctors, and others? |
| − | #Do ignorant or illogical remarks by others bother you?
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| | One can score himself, and use the score to improve. Let's trim the above list to the ten best. | | One can score himself, and use the score to improve. Let's trim the above list to the ten best. |
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| | In [[public school]], the primary approach to mental weakness is to prescribe medication, and that is the approach taken by many adults also. Liberal actor [[Heath Ledger]], for example, was on anti-anxiety medications when he died of an overdose of drugs. But there other approaches available. | | In [[public school]], the primary approach to mental weakness is to prescribe medication, and that is the approach taken by many adults also. Liberal actor [[Heath Ledger]], for example, was on anti-anxiety medications when he died of an overdose of drugs. But there other approaches available. |
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| − | Christianity, for example, offers a combination of logic, faith, complete love for God (which excludes distraction), and willingness for complete self-sacrifice. Thomas Aquinas added mockery to the available tools that can be used. | + | Christianity, for example, offers a combination of logic, faith, complete love for God (which excludes distraction), and willingness for complete self-sacrifice. Thomas Aquinas added mockery to the available tools that can be used. The personal sacrifice by Jesus Christ for others is a powerful inspiration, as was Abraham's offer to sacrifice his beloved son. |
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| − | Judaism has the precedent of Abraham's offer to sacrifice his beloved son, and a commandment against worshiping the equivalent of a false god.
| + | The commandment against worshiping the equivalent of a false god works well in dealing with anything that distracts from faith and love for God. |
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| − | Islam relies heavily on the concept of submission to a more powerful being, which implicitly incorporates elements of self-denial.
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