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| | * [[Philos]] - the love of close friends or brothers. [[Aristotle]] identifies several types of philos <ref>Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII</ref> which can include utility as well as shared characteristics and values. The word is often attached to groups of people who share a love of a common pursuit. | | * [[Philos]] - the love of close friends or brothers. [[Aristotle]] identifies several types of philos <ref>Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII</ref> which can include utility as well as shared characteristics and values. The word is often attached to groups of people who share a love of a common pursuit. |
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| − | * [[Storge]] - the love of [[family]]. This would include [[patriotism]] - the love of country or homeland. | + | * [[Storge]] - the love of [[family]]. This would include [[patriotism]] - the love of country or homeland. Storge was a word used by the Greeks to describe a strong love that protects and makes secure.<ref name="RealLove">{{cite web |
| | + | |title=What Is Real Love? |
| | + | |author=Thomas Nelson |
| | + | |editor=David Sper |
| | + | |publisher=RBC Ministries |
| | + | |url=http://web001.rbc.org/pdf/discovery-series/what-is-real-love.pdf |
| | + | |acessdate=2012-11-07}}</ref> |
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| − | * [[Eros]] - carnal or sexual love. This would include [[romantic love]] but would also include [[lust]]. [[Eros]] is intended by God, as laid down in the Bible, to be enjoyed between a married man and woman. | + | * [[Eros]] - carnal or sexual love. This would include [[romantic love]] but would also include [[lust]]. [[Eros]] is intended by God, as laid down in the Bible, to be enjoyed between a married man and woman. The Greek word ''epithumia'' spoke of desire that found its fulfillment in sexual love.<ref name="RealLove"/> |
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| − | * [[Agape]] - love which seeks the highest good of others, not just friends, family or brothers, but including enemies.<ref> Matthew 5:44</ref> This is considered by all major world religions to be the highest kind of love, although [[Buddhism]] would regard it as [[compassion]]. | + | * [[Agape]] - love which seeks the highest good of others, not just friends, family or brothers, but including enemies.<ref> Matthew 5:44</ref> This is considered by all major world religions to be the highest kind of love, although [[Buddhism]] would regard it as [[compassion]]. ''Agape'' is most often used to speak of God's love and in the days of biblical times it described love in its most profound and pure form. Apostle Paul chose the word ''agape'' for his description of love in 1.Corinthians 13.<ref name="RealLove"/> |
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| | The fifth form of love is called [[Narcissism]], or self love. This word comes from the [[Greek myth]] of [[Narcissus]], who fell in love with his own reflection. Although [[Freud]] considered that everybody has some degree of narcissism, and that this is present in us from birth, <ref>Freud, Sigmund, On Narcissism: An Introduction, 1914</ref> if taken to extremes narcissism can be considered a [[personality disorder]]. | | The fifth form of love is called [[Narcissism]], or self love. This word comes from the [[Greek myth]] of [[Narcissus]], who fell in love with his own reflection. Although [[Freud]] considered that everybody has some degree of narcissism, and that this is present in us from birth, <ref>Freud, Sigmund, On Narcissism: An Introduction, 1914</ref> if taken to extremes narcissism can be considered a [[personality disorder]]. |