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Dealing with straying husbands is a recurring theme. In the “rainy night conversation," Murasaki advises a woman whose husband has strayed to let him know tactfully that she knows and cares, and so to win back his affection. This advise is intended for women of the middle and lower classes. For the upper class, marriage and infidelity are bound up with status at court. By this logic, Murasaki may feel that she is entitled to jealousy.

Dealing with straying husbands is a recurring theme. In the “rainy night conversation," Murasaki advises a woman whose husband has strayed to let him know tactfully that she knows and cares, and so to win back his affection. This advise is intended for women of the middle and lower classes. For the upper class, marriage and infidelity are bound up with status at court. By this logic, Murasaki may feel that she is entitled to jealousy.

Through much of the novel's extended narrative, Murasaki is dominated by Genji. Her personality becomes an extension of his. In the face of Genji's continued infidelity, she grows increasingly disgusted and resentful. In the novel's climatic scene, Murasaki announces her discovery of self: "There I was, [she] thought, completely miserable, and he, simple pastime or not, was sharing his heart with another! Well, I am I!”.<ref name="between" /> The line "I am I" is an abbreviated form of, "You are you, I am I." (''kimi wa kimi, ware wa ware''). This phrase is used in various poems popular at the time to suggest a degree of separation from a lover.<ref name=jealousy>Tyler, Royall, ''The Disaster of the Third Princess: Essays on the Tale of Genji'', "[http://press.anu.edu.au//third_princess/html/ch01s02.html Jealousy and self-affirmation]," ANU.</ref> Murasaki's long-suffering endurance is considered characteristically Japanese. It allows her to overshadow the novel's many colorful characters, at least for Japanese readers.

Through much of the novel's extended narrative, Murasaki is dominated by Genji. Her personality becomes an extension of his. In the face of Genji's continued infidelity, she grows increasingly disgusted and resentful. In the novel's climatic scene, Murasaki announces her discovery of self: "There I was, [she] thought, completely miserable, and he, simple pastime or not, was sharing his heart with another! Well, I am I!”.<ref name="between" /> The line "I am I" is an abbreviated form of, "You are you, I am I." (''kimi wa kimi, ware wa ware''). This was a stock phrase is used in poems popular at the time to suggest a degree of separation from a lover.<ref name=jealousy>Tyler, Royall, ''The Disaster of the Third Princess: Essays on the Tale of Genji'', "[http://press.anu.edu.au//third_princess/html/ch01s02.html Jealousy and self-affirmation]," ANU.</ref> Murasaki's long-suffering endurance is appreciated by Japanese readers as characteristically Japanese. It allows her to overshadow the novel's other characters.

Genji's marriage to the "Third Princess" proved to be his undoing. Marriage to a daughter of the emperor elevated Genji's status at court, but Murasaki was devastated. In her early forties, she died of a broken heart. Genji, then in his early fifties, survives her as a mere shell of his former self. It appears that after the reader sees him for the last time, he leaves the world, retires to a [[Buddhist]] temple, and dies within a year or two.<ref>"[http://us.penguingroup.com/static/packages/us/taleofgenji/introduction3.html The Tale of Genji]"</ref> The final chapter of the book is entitled, "Vanished into the Clouds." It consisted of only the title and a blank page.

Genji's marriage to the "Third Princess" proved to be his undoing. Marriage to a daughter of the emperor elevated Genji's status at court, but Murasaki was devastated. In her early forties, she died of a broken heart. Genji, then in his early fifties, survives her as a mere shell of his former self. It appears that after the reader sees him for the last time, he leaves the world, retires to a [[Buddhist]] temple, and dies within a year or two.<ref>"[http://us.penguingroup.com/static/packages/us/taleofgenji/introduction3.html The Tale of Genji]"</ref> The final chapter of the book is entitled, "Vanished into the Clouds." It consisted of only the title and a blank page.