* no confusion over who is the homemaker and who is the breadwinner; recognizing the benefits of division of labor
* no confusion over who is the homemaker and who is the breadwinner; recognizing the benefits of division of labor
* recognizing that values do matter and do have serious consequences
* recognizing that values do matter and do have serious consequences
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== True Case Studies<ref>The names and occasionally unimportant facts are changed to preserve privacy.</ref> ==
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Ralph was a [[conservative]] who attended a graduate school having a predominantly [[liberal]] culture. There he fell in love with a woman who was quite [[liberal]] and held a very different set of values. With six months he realized he had made a mistake, and within a year filed for divorce.
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However, Ralph belong to a churchthat did not accept divorce, and it took him another four grueling years to obtain an annulment.
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What became the worst experience of his life could have been avoided had he realized the benefits of marrying a [[conservative]].