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==Shame in psychotherapy==

==Shame in psychotherapy==

* No man needs to rely on shame to keep himself on the right path. Shame says, "I am worthless and bad." In contrast, guilt says "I did something bad." Guilt can be appropriate, and convey a needed message. But shame--which is felt on a bodily level as an internal collapsing and deflation-- demeans the person at his very core and destroys his worth and dignity.<ref> [http://www.narth.com/docs/paradox.html The Paradox Of Self-Acceptance] - [[Joseph Nicolosi]], Ph.D.</ref>

* No man needs to rely on shame to keep himself on the right path. Shame says, "I am worthless and bad." In contrast, guilt says "I did something bad." Guilt can be appropriate, and convey a needed message. But shame—which is felt on a bodily level as an internal collapsing and deflation—demeans the person at his very core and destroys his worth and dignity.<ref>[http://www.narth.com/docs/paradox.html The Paradox Of Self-Acceptance] - [[Joseph Nicolosi]], Ph.D.</ref>

==Notes==

==Notes==