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Sexual disorientation (view source)
Revision as of 18:38, February 6, 2017
, 18:38, February 6, 2017→Sexual Abuse: Examples (Ex-'gay's)
==Causes of Sexual Disorientation==
==Causes of Sexual Disorientation==
===Sexual Abuse===
===Sexual Abuse===
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! style="font-size:120%; background:lightgray; text-align:center; padding:5px 0;" | Victims of [[LGBT]]I [[ideomotor effect]] with reports on early [[Sexual abuse being a contributing factor for homosexuality|sexual abuse]]
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| style="padding:15px;" |“Jozef as a child was sexually abused by adult man and in his view this was the cause why he became [[gay]].”<div style="padding-left:40px;">— About [[Jozef Demjan]]<ref>{{cite web |title= Manželia gay a opatrovateľka: Dva týždne v mesiaci je Jozef sám! (Gay and nurse married couple: Two weeks in a month is Josef alone!) |author=den |publisher=Nový Čas |date=September 8, 2012 |url=http://www.cas.sk/clanok/231904/manzelia-gay-a-opatrovatelka-dva-tyzdne-v-mesiaci-je-jozef-sam.html |language=Slovak|quote=Jozefa ako dieťa sexuálne zneužil muž a práve to podľa neho spôsobilo, že sa stal gayom.|accessdate=February 16, 2014}}</ref></div>
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| style="padding:15px;" |“I have put the childhood abuse, and the teenage confusion behind me. What others intended for harm has resulted in untold good. I have overcome, and will not allow evil to win.”<div style="padding-left:40px;">— [[Bob Dixon]]<ref>{{cite web |title=The twists and turns of Missouri’s gubernatorial race |author=Steve Benen |publisher=MSNBC |date=28 Jul 2015 |url=http://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/the-twists-and-turns-missouris-gubernatorial-race |accessdate=06 Feb 2017 |quote=Bob Dixon, is claiming to be a former gay person. ...In a statement, the Republican lawmaker added, “I have put the childhood abuse, and the teenage confusion behind me. ...”}}</ref></div>
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| style="padding:15px;" |“These circumstances made me a magnet for manipulation so at the age of 13 an older boy in my church sexually molested me. The feelings in my heart became a vortex of battling conflicts. I hated his touch and I longed for his touch. I hated liking his attention and I hated not having his attention.”<div style="padding-left:40px;">— [[Darryl L. Foster]]<ref name="Life of Change">{{cite web
|title=Telling our stories in first person...Living a Life of Change and Promise
|author=Pastor Darryl L. Foster
|url=http://www.witnessfortheworld.org/dlfoster.html
|quote=...at the age of 13 an older boy in my church sexually molested me...
|accessdate=23 April 2016}}</ref></div>
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| style="padding:15px;" |“When I was five years old an adult male confronted me in a sexual manner. As a child I was very emotionally sensitive, artistic, and musical…”<div style="padding-left:40px;">— [[Dennis Jernigan]]<ref name="NoOneBornGay">{{cite book |title=No One is Born Gay |url=https://www.dennisjernigan.com/needhelp/1257-no-one-is-born-gay
|author=Dennis Jernigan |publisher=DennisJernigan.com |quote=I used to struggle daily with unwanted same sex attraction – unwanted homosexuality. From my earliest recollections I felt drawn to other males. Many circumstances came my way that only seemed to reinforce those feelings. When I was five years old an adult male confronted me in a sexual manner. As a child I was very emotionally sensitive, artistic, and musical…and the other boys at school in my formative years seemed to relish in reminding me how much of a fag I was. In my college days, a friend and mentor – married with children, Christian, and community leader – made a sexual advance…and I was convinced this was my lot in life. The only problem with that is that I became more miserable than ever. When I got to the end of my rope, God met me there with a new identity and the power to change my way of thinking. To my great dismay (but not to my surprise), the world has begun to think in an upside-down manner, calling what is righteous ridiculous and what is perverse normal and acceptable.|accessdate=2 Jul 2016}}</ref></div>
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Childhood sexual abuse is likely the most common cause of homosexual disoriented self-misidentification. Children are deeply traumatized by sexual abuse and this trauma often results in the adoption of a [[ABC_Theory_of_Emotion#Homosexual_Lifestyle|homosexual lifestyle]] as an adult. A review of the autobiographies of “gay” leaders is enough to confirm this assertion. A large number of them report homosexual molestation by an adult during their childhood or early adolescence, from the German “grandfather of the ‘gay’ movement,” [[Karl Heinrich Ulrichs]], to the father of the American “gay” movement, [[Harry Hay]], and many of the leading activists of the past half-century. Significantly, however, in the case of many of those who do later adopt a homosexual pseudoidentity, these early sexual encounters are not characterized as abuse or molestation, but more often as “consensual” sex.
Childhood sexual abuse is likely the most common cause of homosexual disoriented self-misidentification. Children are deeply traumatized by sexual abuse and this trauma often results in the adoption of a [[ABC_Theory_of_Emotion#Homosexual_Lifestyle|homosexual lifestyle]] as an adult. A review of the autobiographies of “gay” leaders is enough to confirm this assertion. A large number of them report homosexual molestation by an adult during their childhood or early adolescence, from the German “grandfather of the ‘gay’ movement,” [[Karl Heinrich Ulrichs]], to the father of the American “gay” movement, [[Harry Hay]], and many of the leading activists of the past half-century. Significantly, however, in the case of many of those who do later adopt a homosexual pseudoidentity, these early sexual encounters are not characterized as abuse or molestation, but more often as “consensual” sex.