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'''9.'''  Losers have a total or near total lack of [[Openness|openmindedness]], flexibility and tolerance. Losers believe their subjective opinions are facts and demand they be treated as facts. See: [[Intellectual humility]]

'''9.'''  Losers have a total or near total lack of [[Openness|openmindedness]], flexibility and tolerance. Losers believe their subjective opinions are facts and demand they be treated as facts. See: [[Intellectual humility]]

'''10.''' Losers have a bad [[attitude]] and always see the negative things in life and don't focus on the positive things in life and being grateful. See: [[Optimism]]  

'''10.''' Losers have a bad [[attitude]] and always see the negative things in life and don't focus on the positive things in life and being grateful. Losers are focused on problems and not solutions and have poor [[problem solving]] skills. See: [[Optimism]] and [[Pessimism]]

'''11.''' Losers rationalize their underperformance. Their number of excuses reaches an [[excusitis]] level of pathology. See also: [[Rationalization (Psychology)|Rationalization]]

'''11.''' Losers rationalize their underperformance. Their number of excuses reaches an [[excusitis]] level of pathology. See also: [[Rationalization (Psychology)|Rationalization]]

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, unforgiving axe grinders and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, unforgiving axe grinders and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''14.''' Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> See: [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]

'''14.''' Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> Losers are not concerned with helping others. See: [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]

'''15.''' Losers are focused on problems and not solutions and have poor [[problem solving]] skills

'''15.''' Losers are irresponsbile.

'''16.''' Losers lack [[self-awareness]] and are unable to spot loser-like behaviors in themselves.  

'''16.''' Losers lack [[self-awareness]] and are unable to spot loser-like behaviors in themselves.