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'''4.''' Losers are lazy and lack [[self-control]] (And they are often fat, lazy and take poor care of their health). See: [[Will (psychology)|Will]] and [[Motivation]] and [[Self-motivation]]

'''4.''' Losers are lazy and lack [[self-control]] (And they are often fat, lazy and take poor care of their health). See: [[Will (psychology)|Will]] and [[Motivation]] and [[Self-motivation]]

'''5.''' Losers don't learn from their mistakes. They are not adaptable and don't let their experiences teach them.  

'''5.''' Losers don't learn from their mistakes. They are rigid and inflexible. They are not adaptable people who let their experiences teach them or change due to changing circumstances.  

'''6.''' Losers don't replace their bad [[habit]]s with good habits.

'''6.''' Losers don't replace their bad [[habit]]s with good habits.

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, unforgiving axe grinders and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''13.''' Losers are grumblers, unforgiving axe grinders and lack [[gratitude|gratefulness]]. See also: [[Forgiveness]]

'''14.''' Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> Losers are not concerned with helping others. See: [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]

'''14.''' Losers are bad at relationships. Losers are vain, arrogant, feel entitled, always believe they are right and lack [[empathy]]. Losers try to lift themselves up by denigrating others. Losers don't believe in win-win relationships/transactions. They don't believe in [[Teamwork skills|teamwork]] or synergy (Creative cooperation. Working with another/others to create something greater than you could do alone).<ref>[https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/habit-6/ Habit 6: Synergize]</ref> Losers are not concerned with helping others. See: [[Interpersonal skills]] and [[Collaboration]] and [[Agreeableness]] and [[Narcissism]] and [[Narcissistic personality disorder]] and [[Gossip]]

'''15.''' Losers are irresponsbile.  

'''15.''' Losers try too hard to please others - often in insincere ways.

'''16.''' Losers lack [[self-awareness]] and are unable to spot loser-like behaviors in themselves.  

'''16.''' Losers lack [[self-awareness]] and are unable to spot loser-like behaviors in themselves.