Dean Bailey
Dean Bailey is an ex-gay man who now believes that what he portrayes as sexual restoration is ultimately a very healthy choice in the end, and not a harmful one. He lives in Texas (2014) with his wife Della and his two college-aged daughters, Amber and Amanda.[1]
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| âIt is clear to me that a seeming majority of homosexuals actually do believe and adhere to a personal inward ideology that they are fighting for some sort of distorted âequality.â Albeit, their idea of equality could more accurately be described as homo-fascism, because of the way it has become an agenda of forced acceptance and inclusion within our society.â â Dean Bailey[1]
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Personal life
When Bailey was in grade three, he was introduced to sexual play, including streaking and oral copulation. The experience not only robbed him of his childhood innocence, but awakened in him a sense of sexual curiosity. Consequently, Bailey became preoccupied with images of male nudity and with taking more daring sexual risks with different boys. As he grew older, the sexual activities quickly became addictive. When he was a young man in the military, he continued to crave male intimacy and experience gripping same-sex attractions. An intimate but non-sexual encounter with a military male friend whom he greatly admired eventually led to explicit homosexual behaviors.
Looking back on his past, Bailey says he now sees that he has been brought out of what he calls the âsexual confusion of homosexual behaviorsâ to a sexual clarity in mind and heart. He has left behind what he calls the âself-defeating environment of my own, very negative self-imageâ and moved into an unshakable understanding of his value and self worth as a beloved child of God.
Publications
- In his 2011 book titled âBeyond the Shades of Gray,â Bailey wrote about his struggle with homosexuality, telling audiences that homosexuality is a âsexual addiction and dependency,â not a condition to be socially accepted and celebrated. âIt is merely one of the many evidences of the broken, spiritual condition of our human race,â he tells people. Most of the book is available online at his website.[2]
References
- â 1.0 1.1 Pete Baklinski (20 Oct 2014). Ex-gay man: âHomosexuality is just another human brokennessâ. Retrieved on 16 Jul 2017.
- â Dean Bailey (8 Dec 2011). Beyond the Shades of Gray: Because Homosexuality is a Symptom, Not a Solution. Westbow Press. ISBN 978-1449732035.Â