Self-control
Self-Control is defined by the Meriam Dictionary as restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires".[2]
Self-control and the Holy Spirit/Bible
The Christian apologist Gary Habermas wrote: "Double-blind prayer experiments: where people pray for others with terminal illness. Habermas admitted that most such experiments have not worked, but the three that he knows of that have indeed worked were cases of orthodox-Christians praying for the sick."[3]
One of the fruits of the Holy Spirit.
The Fruits of the Holy Spirit are perfections that the Holy Spirit forms in us as the first fruits of eternal glory. The tradition of the Church lists twelve of them.
Self-control and the Bible/Christianity
Bible verses on self-control
- Bible verses on self-control
- 27 Bible Verses About Self Control - All Bible versions, BibleStudytool.org
- 36 Bible Verses About Self-Control
- 20 Bible Verses about Self-Control
Religion and self-control
Engaging in virtuous behavior and quenching temptations to engage in immoral behavior requires self-control.
In the journal article Religion, self-regulation, and self-control: Associations, explanations, and implications, psychologists McCullough and Willoughby theorize that many of the positive links of religiousness with health and social behavior may be caused by religion's beneficial influences on self-control/self-regulation.[4][5] Furthermore, a 2012 Queen's University study published in Psychological Science found that religion replenishes self-control.[6][7]
Research indicates that 12 minutes of daily intense prayer over an eight-week period can change the brain to such a degree that it can be measured on a brain scan. This method of prayer appears to increase activity in brain areas associated with social interaction and compassion/thoughtfulness. In addition, it increases frontal lobe activity as focus and intentionality increase.[8][9][10]
Increasing self-control techniques
Below are various techniques to increase self-control:[11]
1. Eat three meals a day and eat low glycemic index foods (People with alow glucose levels have lower levels of willpower).
2. Get enough sleep. Tired people have lower levels of willpower.
3. Bright lines method (Making steadfast rules that you absolutely commit to. For example, a person committing to eating healthier making a steadfast rule not to go into convenience stores).
4. Set clear goals
5. Behavior monitoring (Get on scale every day for weight loss, use a spreadsheet to track daily performance, etc.)
6. Precommitment strategy which involves restricting choices to better alternatives (Only buying healthy food at grocery store or using portion control for weight loss; browser addons that block various time wasting websites for better time management, etc.). In Homer's book The Odyssey, Ulysses tells his sailors to bind him to the mast of his ship and block their ears before sailing past the island of the Sirens, whose enchanting song draws sailors to shipwreck.
7. Turn behavior into a habit (For example, exercising at the same time everyday.).
Articles on self-control techniques:
- 8 EASY WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR SELF-CONTROL
- 5 Proven Methods For Improving Self Discipline
- 10 tips for strengthening self-discipline
- Just Do It: 11 Proven Ways to Increase Your Willpower and Self-Discipline
- 5 ways to boost your willpower
- 6 ways to boost your willpower
- 4 Simple Steps to Building Stronger Self-Discipline
- 7 self-discipline techniques
- 7 ways to increase discipline
Kelly McGonigal self-control methods and other research
Kelly McGonigal
Kelly McGonigal defines willpower as "the ability to do what you really want to do when part of you really doesnât want to do it."
It consists of three elements:
- I will â the ability to do what you need to do
- I won't â resisting temptation
- I want â Your goals and noble desires
McGonigal recommends increasing willpower though getting proper sleep, exercise and nutrition. Engaging in mindfulness and meditation. Meditation can increase the prefrontal cortex part of the brain which is a center of the brain key to willpower.[12][13]
Future self
Self-control via habits
James Clear on habits
James Clear is a best-selling author who wrote the book Atomic Habits.
- How to Build a New Habit: This is Your Strategy Guide
- The Habits Guide: How to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones
Self- control via habits: Mental Contrasting with Implementation Intentions (MCII)
- The Motivational One-Two Punch for Overcoming Bad Habits The Motivational One-Two Punch for Overcoming Bad Habits
- Mental Contrasting â Effectiveness, Uses, and Precautions
- Stop Being So Positive - HBR
- Gabriele Oettingen - Business Insider
Videos: Mental Contrasting with Implementation Intentions (MCII)
Self-control via daily routines
The creative lives of massively productive people like John Milton, Charles Dickens, Ludwig Beethoven and Edison follow strict daily routines. (i.e., when they would get up, when they would start work, when they would exercise and when they would relax). Peak productivityâs not about luck. Itâs about devotion.
Disciplined thinking
Science of self-control/willpower
Books
- Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy F. Baumeister and John Tierney. Penguin Press; 1st edition (September 1, 2011)
See also
External links
Increasing self-control, general articles/videos:
- Developing greater self-discipline
- Increasing discipline
- Developing stronger self-discipline
- Self-discipline
- How to boost your willpower
- Increase willpower
- The Guide to Developing Self-Discipline that Lasts
- Self-Discipline: How to Build Self-Discipline
Videos:
Notes
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- Personality traits and eating behavior in the obese: poor self-control in emotional and external eating but personality assets in restrained eating
- Eating styles, self-control and obesity indicators. The moderating role of obesity status and dieting history on restrained eating
- Wellspring Camps - Obesity research
- â Self-Control - Webster-Merriam dictionary
- â Christian Apologist: 10 Reasons for the Fall of Atheism by Gary Habermas
- â Religion, Self-Regulation, and Self-Control: Associations, Explanations, and Implications
- â Religion, Self-Regulation, and Self-Control: Associations, Explanations, and Implications
- â Religion Replenishes Self-Control, Psychological Science, June 2012 vol. 23 no. 6 635-642, Kevin Rounding, Albert Lee, Jill A. Jacobson and Li-Jun Ji at Queenâs University
- â Study finds religion helps us gain self-control
- â How Prayer Affects the Brain
- â How God Changes Your Brain: Breakthrough Findings from a Leading Neuroscientist
- â How God Changes Your Brain: Breakthrough Findings from a Leading Neuroscientistâ March 23, 2010 by Andrew Newberg M.D, Mark Robert Waldman. Pages 26,27
- â Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy F. Baumeister and John Tierney. Penguin Press; 1st edition (September 1, 2011)
- â Neurobiology of Spirituality, E. Mohandas, M.D.
- â The Psychology of Mindfulness, Digested
- â The Human Body: God's Masterpiece
- â The Enigmatic Human Brain by Wallace G. Smith
- â The Most Complex Structure, Creation Moments