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The Jonah complex is the: fear of success; fear of change; fear of personal growth, fear of reaching one's potential; fear of achieving one's aspirations and dreams; and fear of meeting one's social and God-given responsibilities (golden rule, etc.).^[1][2][3] The term is derived from the biblical story of Jonah, who atttempted to flee from his divine mission. Just as Jonah attempted to evade his divine destiny, individuals with the Jonah complex subconsciously avoid their own potential.^[4]

"The Jonah Complex and Imposter Syndrome, while both related to self-doubt and potential limitations, differ in their core focus. The Jonah Complex, stemming from the biblical story, is a fear of one's own potential and the responsibilities that come with it. Imposter Syndrome, on the other hand, is the persistent feeling of being a fraud despite evidence of one's competence. Essentially, the Jonah Complex is about avoiding success and growth, while Imposter Syndrome is about doubting the legitimacy of one's achievements." - Jonah complex vs. imposter syndrome

The Jonah complex may interfere with an individual's achievement orientation and hinder a person's ability to achieve organizational/societal aims and goals.^[5]

The Jonah complex is more evident in neurotic people.^[6][7]

Etymology of the term

Abraham Maslow, who is credited with originating the concept of the Jonah Complex, stated: "So often we run away from the responsibilities dictated (or rather suggested) by nature, by fate, even sometimes by accident, just as Jonah tried—in vain—to run away from his fate".^[8]

Symptoms of the Jonah complex

SMART goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.^[9]

Symptoms of the Jonah complex include:^[10]

- Low goals. See: Goal setting

- Procrastination

- Missing of opportunities

- Perfectionism

- Quitting (Just when an individual is on the verge of success, he may quit)

- Self-destructiveness

- Self-sabotage

Causes of the Jonah complex

A Venn diagram showing the relationship between self-concept, self-efficacy, and self-esteem.

Causes of the Jonah complex include:^[11][12][13]

- Unsure of one's abilities. See: Self-efficacy

- Low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness. Imposter syndrome. Inability/difficulty seeing oneself in a position of authority/prominence.^[14]

- Fear of the spotlight due to shyness or introversion. Desire not to be the center of attention. Fear that others will be envious. See: Interpersonal skills

- Avoidance of the increased responsibilities, work and stress. See: Mental toughness and Psychological resilience

- Fear that if one achieves a goal, one may still feel unfilled/unhappy

- A narrow, limiting and fixed view of success. See: Growth mindset and Change management

- Fear that success may change you, but in a negative way. See: Change management

- Fear of seeming to be self-centered or arrogant^[15]

- Childhood trauma. Lack of parental support.

Overcoming the Jonah complex

The half a glass of water helps illustrates of two different mental attitudes, optimism (half full) and pessimism (half empty)

Ways of overcoming the Jonah complex include:^[16][17][18]

- Adopting a growth mindset. Realizing that accomplishing goals is a matter of progress and not perfection.

- Have a positive attitude. Identify and challenge false, negative, unrealistic and limiting beliefs.

- Note how the Jonah complex manifests. Engage in goal setting. Avoid procrastination, missing opportunities, perfectionism, bad attitudes, limiting/false beliefs, quitting, self-destructive/self-handicapping behaviors.

- Stepping out of one's comfort zone and adopting an achievement orientation. Practice experiencing discomfort and build a tolerance to it.

- Developing grit, mental toughness and psychological resilience. Persistence is often necessary for achievement.

- Increasing one's abilities. See: Self-efficacy

- Learn stress management strategies/techniques

- Improving one's interpersonal skills

- Track success via goal setting/tracking, journaling, etc.

- Visualizing success and see all the likely/possible benefits

- Greater willingness to take reasonable/calculated risks. Having a sense of adventure. See: Risk and Risk management

- Accepting one's social/God-given responsibilities. Engaging in continual spiritual growth.

- Explore the origins of one's Jonah complex in terms of one's childhood, later experiences, attitudes, beliefs and actions.

See also

• Self-doubt
• Limiting beliefs
• Achievement orientation
• Neuroticism

External links

• Explaining the Fear of Success, Healthline.com
• What Is the Fear of Success? by Kendra Cherry, MSEd
• Is it Fear of Failure or Fear of Success?, PsychCentral
• How to Deal with the Jonah Complex: Move from Fear to Fulfillment by Mark Sanford, PhD.
• 12 Ways to Stop the Fear of Success From Ruining Your Life
• Why Fear of Success Is Holding You Back More Than Fear of Failure, Inc.
• Finding Your Calling. Obstacles to Embracing Your Vocation
• The Jonah Complex: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Success
• The Cure for the Jonah Complex
• Fearing Growth: The Jonah Complex

Videos:

• Jonah complex videos, Video playlist

References