Self-awareness
Self-awareness is conscious knowledge of one's own character, personality, feelings, motives, and desires. Know thyself is an ancient and well-accepted philosophical maxim which was inscribed upon the Temple of Apollo in the ancient Greek precinct of Delphi.
Self-awareness is vital as it allows for: better decision-making; improved emotional intelligence; enhanced self-confidence; and fosters greater empathy and compassion. This ultimately leads to personal development and stronger relationships.[1]
95% of individuals believe they are self-aware, but according to tests, only 15% of individuals are genuinely aware of themselves.[2] [3]
Self-reflection done honestly (without engaging in rationalization), increases self-awareness. Self-reflection is the ability of people to analyze their thoughts, feelings, an behaviors over time.[4]
Resources on the importance of self-awareness:
- The Benefits of Self-Awareness, Humber River Health
- Exploring the Significance of Self-Awareness
- The Key Role Of Self Awareness In Emotional Intelligence
Contents
Increasing self-awareness
See also: Journaling and Mentor and Friendship and Accountability partner and Performance goal and Results orientation and Mindfulness (Psychology) and Evidence-based thinking and Values and Virtue and Observation skills
To increase self-awareness, you can practice mindfulness meditation (See also: Christian meditative prayer), regularly journal your thoughts and feelings, actively seek feedback from trusted individuals (See: Accountability partner), reflect on your experiences, identify your core values, and pay close attention to your emotions and reactions in different situations. In summary, make a conscious effort to observe yourself objectively and understand your internal processes better.[5]
Articles:
Psychology oriented websites:
- What Is Self-Awareness? (+5 Ways to Be More Self-Aware) by Courtney E. Ackerman, MA.
- How to Boost Your Self-Awareness by Kendra Cherry, MSEd
- How to Be More Self-Aware and Why It’s Important, PsychCentral.com
- How to Be More Self-Aware and Why It’s Important, PsychCentral
- 9 Tips to Help You Kick Off Your Self-Discovery Journey, Healthline.com
- Developing Self-awareness
- 26 Questions To Help You Know Yourself Better, PsychCentral
- How to Know Yourself Better, PsychCentral
- How to increase self-awareness, AI
- How to you increase your self-awareness?, AI
Business-oriented websites and other websites:
- How to Improve Self-Awareness (With Steps and Tips), Indeed
- 10 strategies to improve self-awareness
- 8 Tips To Improve Your Self-Awareness
- Self-awareness activities to transform your life and career by Sami Ramirez, MSc, PCC
- 6 ways to improve self-awareness
- 5 Ways to Become More Self-Aware, Harvard Business Review
- 8 Steps To Improve Your Self-Awareness (With Tips)
- 10 ways to improve self awareness, The Tribune (India)
Videos:
- How to increase self-awareness - video playlist, video playlist
Journaling and improvement of self-awareness
See also: Diary
Journaling improves self-distancing, self-awareness and mindfulness.[6][7][8][9] Self-distancing is one's ability to reflect on past events/emotions as an objective observer.[10] This improves one's ability to break away from a nonstop cycle of obsessive thinking and brooding.[11]
Ladder of inference
See also: Ladder of inference
The ladder of inference is a "model that describes how people move from observable facts to their own conclusions and actions, often unconsciously. It represents a series of mental steps: starting with selecting some data, then adding meaning and assumptions, drawing conclusions, and finally taking action based on those beliefs. Understanding this process allows for reflection and can help in avoiding cognitive biases and making more reasoned decisions.[12]
The ladder of inference "increases self-awareness by making people conscious of their own thought processes, allowing them to examine their assumptions and biases before acting. By intentionally moving down the ladder, you can trace your conclusions back to the raw data, leading to more intentional and less reflexive decisions and a deeper understanding of how you arrive at your beliefs."[13]
Self-awareness tools
See also: The Decision Book: Fifty Models for Strategic Thinking
- Applying the Theory of Unconscious Thinking: A Practical Guide for Intuitive Decisions See: Unconscious and Subconscious
- The Cognitive Dissonance Model: Apply It For Personal Growth
- The Feedback Box: A Matrix to Process Compliments and Criticisms See also: Mentor and Accountability partner
- The Johari Window: An Advanced Exploration of Self-Awareness, Relational Dynamics, and Transformative Growth
- The Uffe Elbæk Model, Trait Assessment: An Advanced Guide to Multi-Perspective Self-Assessment and Transformative Growth, ChatGPT
- The Uffe Elbæk Model, Trait Assessment: An Advanced Guide to Multi-Perspective Self-Assessment and Transformative Growth, Grok
- The Flow Model: A Happiness Framework from Csikszentmihalyi See also: Flow state
- The Personal Performance Model: Unlocking Your Full Potential, ChatGPT
- The Personal Performance Model: A Tool to Evaluate Job Fit, Grok
- The Energy Model: Harnessing Your Mental Energy Through a Balanced Time Perspective
Journal articles
- Self-awareness buffers the consequences of negative feedback: Evidence from an ERP study, International Journal of Psychophysiology. 2021 Jun:164:9-16. doi: 10.1016/j.ijpsycho.2021.02.004. Epub 2021 Feb 5.
- Ashley, Greg; Reiter-Palmon, Roni (1 September 2012). "Self-Awareness and the Evolution of Leaders: The Need for a Better Measure of Self-Awareness". Journal of Behavioral and Applied Management 14 (1): 2–17. doi:10.21818/001c.17902. https://digitalcommons.unomaha.edu/psychfacpub/7/.
Books
- The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer. New Harbinger Publications/ Noetic Books. October 3, 2007
- The Secret of Awareness by Jordan Williams. Independently published. October 25, 2023
- The Self-Awareness Advantage by Lawrence Pfaff, Ed.D. LPC. Learn more. April 1, 2025
Quotes
- "It is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; if you do not know your enemies but do know yourself, you will win one and lose one; if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle." - Sun Tzu
- “Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.” - Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov
See also
- Identity (psychology)
- Emotional intelligence
- Emotional conflict
- Limiting beliefs
- Self-control
- Self-regulation
- Agency (psychology)
- Mindfulness (Psychology)
- Metacognition
- Self-doubt
Other related concepts:
Notes
- ↑ Why is self-wareness important?
- ↑ Only 15% Of People Are Self-Aware -- Here's How To Change, Forbes magazine, 2016
- ↑ 47 Emotional Intelligence Statistics & Facts
- ↑ Lindsay C. Gibson (2015). "3", Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. New Harbinger Publications.
- ↑
- How to increase self-awareness
- The Brutally Honest Personal SWOT: Why Self-Awareness Beats Self-Deception
- What Is Self-Awareness? (+5 Ways to Be More Self-Aware) by Courtney E. Ackerman, MA.
- How to Be More Self-Aware and Why It’s Important, PsychCentral.com
- How to Improve Self-Awareness (With Steps and Tips), Indeed
- 10 strategies to improve self-awareness
- 8 Tips To Improve Your Self-Awareness
- Self-awareness activities to transform your life and career by Sami Ramirez, MSc, PCC
- 6 ways to improve self-awareness
- How to Develop and Increase Your Self-Awareness
- ↑ The Benefits of Creating a Journaling Routine By Sarah Bence, OTR/L, VeryWellHealth.com
- ↑ Ready, Set, Journal! 64 Journaling Prompts for Self-Discovery, PsychCentral
- ↑ 12 Journal Prompts for Emotional Health and Awareness, PsychCentral.com
- ↑ What’s All This About Journaling?, New York Times, 2018
- ↑ The Benefits of Creating a Journaling Routine By Sarah Bence, OTR/L, VeryWellHealth.com
- ↑ 5 Benefits of Journaling for Mental Health, PositivePsychology.com
- ↑ What is the ladder of inference?
- ↑ How can the ladder of inference increase self-awareness?