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'''2.''' Ask yourself: Why am I like this? Where did this come from? What triggers these thoughts/behaviors? Keep questioning yourself via good [[questioning skills]] until you have a good understanding (Who, what, where, why and how). | '''2.''' Ask yourself: Why am I like this? Where did this come from? What triggers these thoughts/behaviors? Keep questioning yourself via good [[questioning skills]] until you have a good understanding (Who, what, where, why and how). | ||
| − | '''3.''' What is the new belief | + | '''3.''' What is the new belief(s) and [[behavior]]s that I will adopt. Work on 1 to 3 limiting beliefs that will be replaced with constructive/positive beliefs and behaviors at a time (For example, see: [[Self-talk]] and [[Positive thinking]] and [[Rational thinking]]). |
'''4.''' Specify a plan in terms of time(s), places and methods that you will instill the constructive/positive beliefs and behaviors. | '''4.''' Specify a plan in terms of time(s), places and methods that you will instill the constructive/positive beliefs and behaviors. | ||
Revision as of 02:03, June 26, 2025
Limiting beliefs "are beliefs we hold about our abilities or potential that can prevent us from pursuing something we want or need."[1]
Contents
Characteristics of limiting beliefs
Below are common characteristics of limiting beliefs:
1. Limiting beliefs are often formed subconsciously and/or unconsciously
2. Are treated as truths - even though they may be untrue.
3. Assume that there is undeniable evidence that supports such a truth
4. Have a negativity bias (rather than assume we can we assume we can’t). See: Positive thinking and Negative thinking and Optimism and Pessimism
5. Might be excuses, justifications, worries, perfectionist thinking, fears, etc. See: Excusitis and Rationalization (Psychology)
6. Are detrimental to achievement and peak performance oriented activities. See also: Achievement orientation
Importance of overcoming limiting beliefs
See also: Confidence and Courage
See also: Peak performance and Self-efficacy and Confidence and Comfort zone and Achievement and Achievement orientation and Goal setting and Interpersonal relations and Friendship and Social networking
According to John. J. Prendergast, Phd, it is important to overcome one's limiting beliefs for the following reasons:
| “ | Overcoming limiting beliefs is crucial for personal growth and success. These beliefs can hold us back from getting promotions, trying new things and so many more important steps in life.
Here are some reasons why it is essential to challenge and overcome these self-imposed barriers: 1. Unlock your potential: Limiting beliefs prevents us from exploring our true potential and discovering our talents and abilities. We open ourselves to new opportunities and personal growth by overcoming these beliefs. 2. Increase self-confidence: Limiting beliefs erode our self-confidence and self-esteem. Overcoming them helps build resilience, belief in oneself, and empowerment. 3. Expand your comfort zone: Limiting beliefs create a comfort zone that keeps us within familiar boundaries. We can expand our comfort zone and embrace new challenges and experiences by challenging and overcoming these beliefs. 4. Achieve success: Limiting beliefs act as roadblocks on the path to success. By breaking free from these self-imposed limitations, we can pursue our goals with renewed determination and succeed. 5. Improve relationships: Limiting beliefs can hinder healthy relationships by creating barriers to intimacy, trust, and vulnerability. Overcoming these beliefs allows for deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships.[2] |
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Articles:
- The Importance of Overcoming Limiting Beliefs (With Examples) by John. J. Prendergast, Phd
- Why Overcoming Limiting Beliefs is the Fast Track to Success
- How limiting beliefs might be holding you back & how to fix them
Overcoming limiting beliefs
Steps to overcoming limiting beliefs:[3]
1. Ask yourself the question: What is holding me back?
2. Ask yourself: Why am I like this? Where did this come from? What triggers these thoughts/behaviors? Keep questioning yourself via good questioning skills until you have a good understanding (Who, what, where, why and how).
3. What is the new belief(s) and behaviors that I will adopt. Work on 1 to 3 limiting beliefs that will be replaced with constructive/positive beliefs and behaviors at a time (For example, see: Self-talk and Positive thinking and Rational thinking).
4. Specify a plan in terms of time(s), places and methods that you will instill the constructive/positive beliefs and behaviors.
Articles and videos:
- Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs by Melanie A. McNally Psy.D.
- Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs by Melanie McNally, PsyD
- Don't let limiting beliefs hold you back. Learn to overcome yours
- How to Overcome Your Limiting Beliefs
- 6 Steps to Breaking Your Limiting Beliefs
- Recognizing Core Limiting Beliefs by John. J. Prendergast, Phd
- 22 Limiting Beliefs (Almost) Everyone Has and How to Deal With Them
- 10 limiting beliefs and how to overcome them
Videos:
- Limiting beliefs - video playlist, Video playlist
Books
See also: Books about having a winning mindset
- There Are No Limits: Breaking the Barriers in Personal High Performance by Danny Cox. Executive Books. January 1, 2006
- Life Without Limits: Inspiration for a Ridiculously Good Life by Nick Vujicic. WaterBrook. June 5, 2012
- Born Limitless: Crush Limiting Beliefs, Cultivate an Infinite Mindset, and Unleash Your True Potential by Rick Torrison. Ethos Collective. May 7, 2024
- The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level ― A Transformative Guide to Overcoming Fears and False Beliefs for Personal Growth and Success by Gay Hendricks. HarperOne. April 21, 2009
- Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Exceptional Life (Expanded Edition) by James Kwik. Hay House LLC. November 14, 2023
- Think This, Not That: 12 Mindshifts to Breakthrough Limiting Beliefs and Become Who You Were Born to Be by Dr. Josh Axe. Thomas Nelson. April 2, 2024
- Beyond Limits: Shifting Beliefs and Reshaping Reality by Randy Campadore. Self Publisher. April 16, 2025
- Shush!: Simple, Relatable Ways to Silence Limiting Beliefs Through Stories, Affirmations, and Reflective Journaling by Adedoyinsola Abitoye. PEOPLESMITH LIMITED. February 6, 2025
See also
- Irrational thinking
- Negative thinking
- Self-doubt
- Jonah complex
- Cognitive bias
- Comfort zone
- Rational thinking